Still Dog Tired?

Aug 23, 2020

Hey there, 

I know you are dog-paddling like mad to keep your head above water while holding your children up over the waterline.

I know you are dog-tired.

Here are three short ideas to keep you in the therapeutic parenting game while school is upstarting:

1. Be safe.  Act like Snoopy and keep your Joe Cool.  Your cool makes you the most safe person in the room, right?

2. Co-regulate, instead of insisting your child use self-regulation coping skills.  Your child can't use those when dysregulated; they need you to do with, show, be actively regulating around them.  Mirror neurons rock, and regulate.

3. Be PACE-ful--Playful, Accepting, Curious, and Empathic.  You catch more bees with honey, than you do with vinegar.  You know what I mean.

4.  When all else fails--Stop, Drop Your Agenda, Breathe.  

Remember, your love matters,

❤️Ce

P.S. The Love Matters Parenting Society is here for you if you need more ways to thrive while loving your child from difficult beginnings.

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