Typical parenting makes things worse. There IS a better way...
"Love+" Parenting WORKS!
You Can Be the Parent You Always Dreamed You Would Be
with Your Child from Difficult Beginnings.
Be the right parent with the right tools in the right order at the right time.
✋ Yes, I Want This
Loving Families don't just happen....
They are created!
One family at a time!
"I am so grateful I found my people in the Love Matters Parenting Program. I have felt so alone and crazy trying to do this with just me and my husband."
Mother of 2 traumatized boys
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From "Breaking holes in walls"...
Our kid who had the biggest, most destructive behavior, was able, with our help (our new way of parenting, learned from Ce), to eventually see his triggers and talk about them; he agreed to seek help with his anxiety, and he has gone from breaking holes in wall regularly, to a kid who might yell in anger, but who quickly apologizes and asks to talk about the situation!
- Adoptive Mom of 3
"From hopeless to strength"....
I went from hopeless and about to give up to having hope again, and strength to carry on.
- Adoptive Parent of 1
"Being with a group of parents ...is priceless"...
Being with a group of parents who are struggling with the same types of issues; who share their struggles and their wins, is priceless.
- Adoptive Parent of 1
"Helped those big behaviors"...
We are so much more relaxed in our approach to our kids!...our kids have parents who can actually help them feel seen and safe (which has helped those big behaviors!)
- Adoptive Parent of 1
"Overcome... suicide threats and attempts"...
This program “taught me the skills and practices I need to help my granddaughter learn to love herself. I have watched as she has overcome daily dysregulation, fighting, fits that led to suicide threats and attempts to being able to regulate more easily....
- Adoptive Parent of 1
Is parenting your child who experienced adoption, abuse, or early childhood trauma harder than you imagined?
Then You Need the Right Tools
Are you spending hours reading parenting books, taking courses, seeking therapy, and following recommendations that just Don't Work for YOUR Child?
Then You Need them in the Right Order
Do you feel trapped? As if there is no way out of the chaos and drama in your family life?
Then You Need them at the Right Time
Honestly, It Only Gets Worse
If You Do Nothing Differently
Your kids just get older and bigger with Additional Trauma Symptoms:
Disregarding what you say...
Breaking your rules...
Affectionate to others, but rarely surrendering to you...
Controlling as much as possible, including friends, siblings, and you...
Hoarding all kinds of things, and losing their minds when you try to sort it all out...
Transition meltdowns at every turn...
Shutting down...
Lying, Stealing, Manipulating...
Fighting, Arguing, Refusing...
Breaking things, Running away, Threatening Violence or Self Harm...
As frightening as those symptoms are, you can be part of the solution, rather than part of the problem.
Then You Need Help, Right?
And not from someone who doesn't get it. This program is for parents who are serious about making a change in their lives with children from difficult beginnings.
Meet Ce Eshelman, LMFT
Owner of The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC, the Love Matters Parenting Society, and Author of the best selling book: Drowning With My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief For Adoptive Parents.
This happened just last week and I want to share it with you.
I bumped into a parent I worked with nearly 10 years earlier who came to my office for help. Back then, I encouraged her to focus on becoming the parent her child needed her to be, a parent who understood how trauma was impacting her child and her parenting. She wasn't able, at the time, to take her focus off of changing her child's behavior--so we amicably parted ways. I asked her how things were going now, given her son is 14. Sadly, she said, "He has been in therapy for the last 10 years straight and he still can't make friends, take turns, or be kind to others. I'm just as frazzled as ever." My stomach hit the floor. There isn't anything more heartbreaking for me than talking to a parent I was trying desperately to give the keys for a better life to and finding out that what I predicted for them 10 years earlier happened. I'm not boasting here, nor am I clairvoyant. I've just been working with parents of children who experienced trauma for a long time now.
While every family is unique, there are some characteristics, dynamics, and repetitive trauma patterns that are eerily similar, predictive even. And, my dear friends, there is a way to change that, but it requires new thought processes and determination to manifest the life you want, plus the right tools, in the right order, at the right time in a proven program supported by expertise and wisdom.
The Right Tools:
You need effective, long term guidance to teach you how to use therapeutic parenting tools effectively. This program is definitely not a series of YouTube Shorts or snappy Reels. You see, you can lift your family out of the sticky trauma muck of negative feedback loops. You will get state-of-the-art tools, not just pop psychology quotes in other programs.
The Right Order:
You need a proven-successful program that sees your whole family, not just the child who has trauma, because you all have some trauma now, right?
This program sees the whole family and was built on analysis of hundreds of observations and successful interventions with other parents of children from difficult beginnings.
What part of your family needs aid first? What part of the person needs aid first? The order of interventions determines successful outcomes.
You need a simple process that builds your confidence as the expert leader in your family.
Because you are busy and tired, you need an expert to walk you systematically through bite-sized learning opportunities in the way you learn best--video, audio, written, groups, or one-on-one.
The Right Time:
You need experts with wisdom so you can call upon it at the time you need it, not just when you have an appointment scheduled. Some programs out- source their experts, who rarely make an appearance. You have daily access to expertise in this program right when you need it.
You need a comprehensive program for effective therapeutic parenting so you are not always searching for answers and constantly reinventing the wheel. You don't have time for that tail chasing, so everything in this program is available under one roof all the time.
Finally, you know as well as I do that you can be so painfully isolated and alone parenting kids with trauma, so you need a program that has a built in community right now to cheer you forward as you learn to be the parent your child needs you to be. Unlike some online communities that dish up negative insights, this program, 24/7 365, lifts you up while holding your truth, which may not be all that pretty.
Love+ Success Stories
"Love Matters Parenting Society changed my family for the better. I am so very grateful for all that I have learned through the program and also the support I found in the community."
Sarah, Adoptive Mom of 2
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"The support group helps us share daily challenges, that may be different, and incredibly out of the norm, and in this setting there is a certain resonance with other families...so you learn from what other people do, you feel accepted and you appreciate your own family dynamics more."
Cindy, Adoptive Mom of 1
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"This program made all the difference in my life and my ability to be a therapeutic parent. If you feel like you can't do any more, if you are burdened by shame or the opinion of others LMPS can change your life because truly Love Matters."
Al, Adoptive Dad
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This is what parents of traumatized kids ask
for most...
Real "Lived" Experience
Ce Eshelman, attachment and trauma specialist, is an adoptive mom of two with 37 years of expertise.
Real Change
Love+ Parenting works to stem the tide of irritation, rejection, disrespect, and anger in your home.
Stop the Chaos
Parents want to break free of the seemingly never-ending parent/child trauma patterns and to end the chaos of negative feedback loops. This program teaches parents to recognized their own family patterns, understand the messages, and break free of them.
Love Your Life
You deserve less stress and more peace. Love+ Parenting puts you on the path to loving your life. CLICK HERE to listen how Karyn Speakman, adoptive mom of 4, is living her life since completing this program. So beautiful.
” This program is a life changing
experience! ”
Sarah, Adoptive Mom of 2
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Do you long to...
Gain control of your children and your free time again?
Create a more organized and less chaotic home?
Maintain power and influence in your family?
Experience less stress and more peace?
Becoming a therapeutic expert in your own family
is the best way to truly Love Your Life.
What if I told you that I put my 25 years of experience as an adoptive mother into a program approved by parents struggling with attachment and abuse trauma from all around the world? What if I also put my 20 years of expertise in attachment and trauma treatment into a comprehensive virtual program that has all of the effective, proven ingredients, strategies, and tools, real expertise and guidance, and a solid community of wise parents to walk you straight into being the expert you need to be in your family?
Do you want a program like that?
What is holding you back from investing in yourself and your family so you can stop feeling thwarted?
What is keeping you from taking advantage of getting this trauma nightmare under control?
Let's be honest here, what's really in the way of putting yourself in a studied position to love your life?
"I couldn't do life without this program."
Kristy B, Adoptive Mom of 4
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There Are Usually Unexplored Reasons For Not Taking Steps Toward Transformation...
Afraid to invest in yet another disappointing program that doesn't work?
This program is time-tested and proven over and over again with parents of children who experienced early childhood physical and sexual abuses, attachment challenges from being carted around the foster care system, and children who have suffered neglect.
Given up on finding anything that works for your child?
Well, I haven't. I have yet to meet a child that I don't believe can heal from the effects of early childhood trauma. That means RAD kids, too. With the Right Tools for effective parenting, in the Right Order of brain-body engagement, and in the Right Time frame, children heal and parents recover. If adults can heal from trauma and go on to live productive lives, then so can your child.
Are you traumatized by all the chaos and drama you see in your home: the arguing, fighting, and breaking glass?
You've found the right place. We have all been where you are. This program is designed for you, to offer you solutions that WORK when guided by Ce, an attachment and trauma specialist, and other parents who have been where you are. The proof is in the hundreds of families loving the life they live.
Just too tired or blocked to feel like making a change?
Yup, We have all been there, too. Unfortunately, tired and blocked will not simply go away on their own. However, just 1% change can produce a result that will lift your exhaustion and restore you heart. That's a promise.
Convinced you don't have the time?
The time is NOW for your children. The earlier the better. That phrase you read above about your kids just getting older and bigger is FOR REAL.
Thinking it will cost too much?
You can't afford NOT to invest in this transformation NOW. What price is too high for a better life?
This program costs less than 2.5 Starbucks per week over a year. Is that too much for family wellness?
The average family in this situation spends $10,000 a year on therapy alone. And those costs will increase as your child's behaviors escalate. Then there will be higher levels of care, hospitalizations, or residential care. That is not an an empty threat; it is a reality of many parents who don't find the right path for their families.
The earlier you make a change, the better the financial outcome for your family. You truly don't have the time NOT to invest in this program.
"I Don't Want to Say This Out Loud, But I Felt Hopeless Before Coming Here."
Marilyn - Step Mom of 2 Adopted Children and Bio Mom of 2 Neurodivergent Children
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Love+ Parenting takes you where no other program goes: right to the expertise of the matter.
You will have magic words to get your children to do what you need them to do and plenty of fall back strategies for the refusal days.
You will develop more patience, less distress, and finally be the fun parent. It's all in the order you approach your parenting life.
You will lead your family the way you always thought you would before bringing traumatized children home. When your timing is right, your children get you and follow.
And, what if I said you can do all of this without yelling, severe punishments, even more therapy, or constant fear of Child Protective Services knocking on your door?
Love+ Parenting gives you the keys and puts you in the driver's seat.
Take your family in the direction you want to go when you have the right tools, in the right order, at the right time.
Love+ Parenting in the Love Matters Parenting Society Program is:
- Time Tested.
- Parent Proven.
- Trauma and Adoption Informed.
- State-of-the-Art Comprehensive Therapeutic Parenting Model.
- Expert Guided.
- Community Supported.
- Family Transformation Program.
You will never be alone with your troubles again.
Love+ Parenting taps into...
Your innate healing wisdom
Tested therapeutic parenting principles, strategies, and tools
Deep learning to unfold personal parenting expertise
Your ability to "show up" in a grounded, loving, steady way
Why does that matter?
It matters when you want to Love Your Life with Children from Difficult Beginnings
✋ You are Invited to the Priority List
This program is for dedicated parents only.
Is that you?
Parents of children who have experienced early childhood trauma like abuse or being separated from their bonded caregivers.
Parents of children whose attachment process has been stagnated by too many changes in early caregiving.
Parents who are committed to taking the time and action to improve the quality of life for their children and their families.
Parents who are struggling to help their children feel safe in their homes by preventing the escalation of symptoms from complex trauma.
Parents who are committed to investing in the work to learn more about how trauma has affected their families and how to stop the patterns of trauma that are occurring, as a result.
Parents who are struggling to love their life.
One more therapy appointment, one more year of therapy, or ten more years of therapy will not make your family healthy and whole.
However, if you are committed to living a different life, building a life you love and loving the life you have, and you are ready to invest in yourself and your family, then this is for you.
Are you ready to transform yourself into the expert your child needs you to be to feel safe enough to heal into the family kid you need them to be?
Yes, change is eminent, not just possible when you invest in a comprehensive therapeutic parenting program that has the attachment and trauma expertise to make you into the expert in your own home.
So, you may not be invested enough for a transformation or you may not have enough desire to change things for the better. That's a choice. This program is only for those who want more from life than trauma wack-a-mole. You know what I mean?
This program is for you, only if you are dedicated to making real change to Love Your Life.
If you want what Kim below has--a life changing experience--then you want Love+ Parenting.
Wherever you find yourself on this parenting journey.
Love+ Parenting.
- Will take you to the next level.
- The expert level in your own home.
Why does that matter?
This is where your begin to love your life..
"I couldn't do life without this program."
Kristy B, Adoptive Mom of 4
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24/7 - 365
Care For Your Mind/Body/Soul
Love Matters Parenting Society is about living your best life when it seems near impossible while caring for your traumatized child(ren).
Thriving over Surviving.
The Power of Regulation.
24/7 - 365
Expertise For The Behavior Transformation
Love+ Parenting Model in the Love Matters Parenting Society is about walking the talk of healing trauma patterns with state-of- the-art tools and coaching at your fingertips.
The Power of Expert Coaching.
To Become An Expert in Your Family.
24/7 - 365
Community For Your Heart
Love Matters Parenting Society has a community of like-minded, like-hearted, and like-experienced parents who get you and your real life with children from difficult beginnings.
Empathy Over Sympathy.
The Power of Community.
Frequently Asked Questions
Ce Eshelman Created Love+ Parenting in the Love Matters Parenting Society. Read about her journey.
What is Love+ Parenting?
What If I'm Not The Right Kind Of Parent For This Program?
What Do I Get In This Program?
What If I Can't Afford It?
When Should I Sign Up?
Is This An Internet Scam?
WhatI Change My Mind About the Program?
What If Things are Really Bad, Even Violent at My House? Will I Be Judged or Shamed?
I'm Already Swamped. Is This Program Going To Be Too Academic and Overwhelming For Me?
Will I Really Ever Get Expert Support In This Program?
Still Have Questions?
” You and Your Family Deserve to Love Your Life”
